December 22, 2007

The year that has been

The year is drawing to a close. Christmas is Tuesday; and there's less than a week and a half left to 2007.

I wish I could say it's been a great year. To be honest, moments of joy have been sparse, at best. On the CBC program "Q" last night, Jian Ghomeshi was talking about how the British have a small obsession with the "Christmas Day single"; it seems the single holding the No. 1 spot on Christmas Day is a big deal. If you've seen the movie "Love Actually", this is a subplot of that movie.

My end-of-year music obsession is somewhat different. I usually try to find a song that sums up the year's events, or the overall feeling I have when looking back over the year.

This year, the award goes to a beautiful song by Semisonic's Dan Wilson; it's from the "Maybe This Christmas" compilation and it's called, "What a Year for a New Year":

What a year for a new year
We need it like we needed life I guess
Last one left us lying in a mess
What a year for a new year

What a night for a sunrise
And we thought the dark would never end
Reaching out to try to find a friend
What a night for a sunrise
Sunrise

What a day for new day
And our star shines like a miracle
And our world is almost beautiful again
What a day for a new day
New day

What a year for a new year

What a night for a sunrise
And we thought the dark would never end
Reaching out to try to find a friend
What a night for a sunrise
Sunrise

Soon we’ll be lying in our beds
And new dreams will fill our heads
And the old ones will be ended
Hope we’ll forget about this place
Let it go without a trace
Wipe the teardrops from our faces
Oh! What a year for a new year!

I'm not a total Scrooge, of course; I'm looking forward to Christmas with B and the kids, and I think it will be a "rewarding" one for us all, in terms of the superficial. I'm just finding it difficult, these days, to keep a good perspective and look to the future with much optimism. Rather than my usual (or former) "This'll get better soon", my mindset is more, "Good grief. This is never going to change, is it?"

...Hope we’ll forget about this place
Let it go without a trace...

December 15, 2007

Weather warnings with flair

A colleague and I chuckle over the writing style of the weather warnings issued in our area. Even when the weather itself is nothing to laugh at, someone is clearly a big fan of the old thesaurus and does his/her best to avoid the dry, matter-of-fact reporting style of years past.

We are expecting a really nasty winter storm starting overnight tonight and into tomorrow. Here's our current weather warning, italics mine (sorry for the all-caps; apparently Mr. Thesaurus isn't familiar with Mr. Internet Etiquette):

A NEAR-CRIPPLING SNOW STORM WITH HEAVY SNOW AND BLOWING SNOW AS WELL AS SOME ICE PELLETS TONIGHT AND SUNDAY. THIS IS A WARNING THAT DANGEROUS WINTER WEATHER CONDITIONS ARE IMMINENT OR OCCURRING IN THESE REGIONS. MONITOR WEATHER CONDITIONS..LISTEN FOR UPDATED STATEMENTS.
A MASSIVE WINTER STORM IS ABOUT TO STRIKE MUCH OF SOUTHERN AND EASTERN ONTARIO WITH NEAR RECORD SNOWFALL AMOUNTS. LATEST ANALYSES INDICATES (should be "indicate", there's no "s" when the subject is plural, as "analyses" is) THAT THE DEVELOPING LOW PRESSURE SYSTEM IS MOVING INTO WESTERN TENNESEE PRECEEDED BY A BURGEONING AREA OF MODERATE SNOW WITH SOME FREEZING PRECIPITATION EXTENDING NORTH TO LAKE ERIE. THE LOW WILL MOVE NORTHEAST TOWARDS THE LOWER GREAT LAKES AND INTENSIFY RAPIDLY AS IT REACHES OHIO SUNDAY MORNING THEN TRACK ACROSS NEW YORK STATE INTO NEW ENGLAND SUNDAY NIGHT. THIS STORM TRACK WILL PLACE MUCH OF SOUTHERN AND EASTERN ONTARIO DIRECTLY UNDER THE BRUNT OF HEAVY SNOW. A FEW CLAPS OF THUNDER ALONG WITH BURSTS OF VERY HEAVY SNOW ARE ALSO LIKELY. PATCHY AREAS OF SNOW HAVE AFFECTED PORTIONS OF SOUTHERN ONTARIO TODAY AS WELL AS A LAKE SNOW BAND MEANDERING ACROSS TORONTO. THERE IS A CHANCE THAT THIS BAND MAY INTENSIFY THIS EVENING OVER TORONTO GIVING LOCALLY 5 CM OR MORE. THE BRUNT OF THE MAIN SNOW EVENT WILL BEGIN THIS EVENING IN THE SOUTHWEST AND RAPIDLY ENVELOP ALL REGIONS EAST TO OTTAWA IN THE OVERNIGHT HOURS. COPIOUS AMOUNTS OF SNOW AS WELL AS STRONG WINDS CAUSING BLOWING SNOW ARE EXPECTED. FREEZING RAIN IS ALSO POSSIBLE NEAR LAKE ERIE. WIDESPREAD SNOWFALL ACCUMULATIONS OF 20 TO 30 CM ARE EXPECTED IN MOST AREAS TONIGHT AND SUNDAY. SOME LOCAL AMOUNTS OF 40 CM OR MORE ARE QUITE LIKELY IN A FEW AREAS BY SUNDAY NIGHT..ESPECIALLY FROM THE WEST END OF LAKE ONTARIO AND EASTWARDS INTO FAR EASTERN ONTARIO. SIGNIFICANT BLOWING SNOW IS EXPECTED TO ACCOMPANY THE HEAVY SNOW DUE TO STRONG NORTHEAST WINDS GUSTING TO 60 KM/H WHIPPING UP THE FRESHLY FALLEN SNOW AND CAUSING WHITEOUT CONDITIONS. IN ADDITION FREEZING RAIN IS POSSIBLE ESPECIALLY NEAR LAKE ERIE FOR A FEW HOURS OVERNIGHT AND SUNDAY MORNING AS MILDER AIR PAYS A BRIEF VISIT ALOFT. ICE PELLETS ARE ALSO QUITE POSSIBLE GENERALLY ALONG AND SOUTH OF A LINE FROM GRAND BEND TO NEAR TORONTO AND EAST TO CORNWALL. THE PUBLIC SHOULD BE PREPARED TO CHANGE PLANS ACCORDINGLY TO AVOID UNNECESSARY TRAVEL DURING THIS STORM. THIS MASSIVE SNOW STORM HAS THE POTENTIAL TO CAUSE NEAR-PARALYZING CONDITIONS AS ROAD TRAVEL ON ANY UNPLOWED STREETS MAY BECOME NEXT TO IMPOSSIBLE ON SUNDAY. ALL MOTORISTS WHO MUST TRAVEL ARE URGENTLY ADVISED TO USE EXTREME CAUTION AND PLAN FOR MUCH EXTRA TIME TO REACH THEIR DESTINATION. THERE IS A HIGH DEGREE OF CERTAINTY WITH THIS STORM AS THE CONCENSUS OF WEATHER MODEL DATA IS VIRTUALLY UNANIMOUSLY FORECASTING THIS EVENT. ENVIRONMENT CANADA CONTINUES TO CLOSELY MONITOR THIS SITUATION. THE WINTER STORM WARNINGS WILL LIKELY BE EXPANDED NORTHEAST ACROSS THE REMAINDER OF THE REGIONS THIS AFTERNOON.

PLEASE REFER TO THE LATEST PUBLIC FORECASTS FOR FURTHER DETAILS.

November 26, 2007

Cat owners will understand...

I can't have a cat anymore. I developed an allergy to them when I was pregnant with J. Sometimes I wish I could have one. Watching something like this makes me remember why I'm mostly glad I can't.




'Wake Up Cat' is by an English animator called Simon Tofield and it is actually called 'Cat Man Do'. He works for an animation company called Tandem Films.

Pride & Prejudice continued


So I've finished watching the mini-series, and partway through hour two, it struck me who Alison Steadman's Mrs. Bennet reminded me of:



That's right, Miss Piggy. All she was missing was a "Hi-ya!" after each line. Imagine The Pig saying, "Oh, Mr. Bennet!" instead of "Oh, Kermie!!" and you've more or less got the gist.

Despite that, I loved it.

November 23, 2007

Becoming Jane


Ah, to have lived in the Regency era. When men were chivalrous, women wore always-flattering empire waistlines, and every love story was just as though it was written by Jane Austen herself.

Okay, maybe not. But I do love Jane Austen, and a good empire waistline. Emma is and will always be my favourite Jane Austen novel; and I love the movie with Gwenneth Paltrow and Jeremy Northam.

This year I decided to read some of the classics, and as I've enjoyed Emma many times, started with some of Jane Austen's other novels. First was Sense and Sensibility. It was...okay. Certainly nothing like Emma; nowhere near as enjoyable, in my opinion. I have yet to watch the movie.

Next was Pride and Prejudice. LOVED IT. And as great as it was on the first read, the second was even more enjoyable as I picked up on a number of things I had missed on the first go-round. Mr. Darcy's letter to Lizzie is so strong. Their conversations in the last several chapters are full of the real love and respect and admiration that can only develop over time. Mr. Bennet's admonition to Lizzie, "Do any thing but marry without love". And I wince along with Lizzie every time her mother opens her mouth.
The 2005 movie made with Keira Knightley, Donald Sutherland, Brenda Blethyn and Matthew McFadyen was fantastic. The casting was spot-on, with the exception of Jena Malone who was just entirely wrong for the role of Lydia. The only real complaint I have with the movie is that it galloped through the story. It clocked in at just under two hours; it could have been extended by thirty or forty minutes and it would have added so much to the telling of the story. The part about Mr. Darcy having paid off Wickham's debts and paying for him to marry Lydia, was skipped entirely; to the story's detriment, I feel. Elizabeth's line during Darcy's original proposal, "If you had behaved in a more gentleman-like manner", is a pivotal point in the story and in Mr. Darcy's growth; again, it was ignored. And - just a tiny quibble - no kiss at the end?

I am now in the process of watching the 1995 BBC mini-series with Colin Firth and Jennifer Ehle. As it is a six-part series, I am hoping that the story will keep more of the integrity of the novel. I have watched Part 1 so far. I'm not nearly as happy with the actors, with the exception of Colin and Jennifer, and the women playing the younger Bennet daughters, Kitty and Lydia. I'm particularly unimpressed with Alison Steadman as Mrs. Bennet, who does little but shriek her way through the part. Mrs. Bennet should be unrefined and obnoxious, but one must imagine that she couldn't conceivably have kept up such a tone without losing her voice. The other unforgivably-cast character is Caroline Bingley, played by Anna Chancellor's nose. Seriously. However, many of the lines in the movie are taken directly from the book; and that part, I am enjoying. Besides, it's really mostly about Darcy and Lizzie anyways, right?

My next "conquest", after finishing the remaining five hours of the mini-series, will be the biopic "Becoming Jane". I'm not wild about Anne Hathaway but it may be an interesting film, as it is based on the book of the same name by historian Jon Spence.

October 23, 2007

Forging Ahead

You know how you get a song stuck in your head...my head is currently playing "Guantanamera" from Ry Cooder's Buena Vista Social Club album. I don't even know why - I haven't heard it in a few months at least.

So tomorrow my new boss (due to the acquisition - see my previous post) will be visiting the office with a couple of administrator-type people. We'll have an opportunity to ask some questions about how their day-to-day stuff works, like paydays and other nitty-gritties. I am the kind of person who would rather know the worst possible news, than sit and wonder what's going on. Not that I am expecting bad news; but you know what I mean.

Also had a bit of a tete-a-tete with a company rep today, who has dealt with our new employer. The conversation went a long way to put our minds (mine and my colleague's) at ease about working for this particular company.

So, all that being said, I am feeling encouraged!

October 21, 2007

Direct your feet to the sunny side of the street...

For the past couple of months I've been pursuing a job with a different brokerage - I had a couple of different leads, each in the Ottawa area. The first place didn't pan out; they couldn't decide what they wanted to hire for. The second seemed really promising. I had a great interview and got good feedback from both the recruiter, and from my references. All signs were pointing to an offer coming my way - and then they hired someone else. Apparently the other candidate was someone they liked just as well, but who had more commercial lines experience. So for that I can't blame them, but I'm definitely disappointed; feel like someone took the wind out of my sails. They mentioned they'd consider hiring me for personal lines but there's no way. I am not at all looking to go back to personal lines; talk about regressing in my career!

So, I had hoped my update would be a bit more exciting; but it is what it is. At my current office, my employers of 13 years are retiring and the business has now been acquired by a brokerage based in Campbellford. My job is not in danger; if anything, this will open up a lot of new commercial markets to me, and for that I'm excited - it'll be a learning opportunity for me, as well as a chance to provide even better service to my clients.

In other news, we're living in the country now, about 25 minutes north of the city. The kids love it. My sister-in-law's dog lives with us (they live in a house that isn't suitable for the dog) and the kids love her too. B is enjoying being in the country again. This is the house he grew up in (we're living with his dad). I can't say that I *love* it. I like the city. If I was single with no kids, I'd live in the city in a heartbeat. It suits my lifestyle. But having a yard, having a lot of privacy, not having a ton of people around - it's good for the kids. I'm grateful that my father-in-law had the space available for us when we needed it. And the local grocery store has a combination LCBO/The Beer Store attached. I will say that, the two days a week I get to commute by myself, I enjoy the drive. And J likes his new school and his teacher seems good. Trying really hard to find all the positives.

October 09, 2007

We're over, Prison Break

Jesus Christ on toast.

The FUCKING FUCKING FUCKING FUCKING BASTARDS at FOX have killed one of the best drama series of my adult life, when they decided to decapitate Sara Tancredi.

I can't even go into it. Michael and Sara no sooner expressed their love for each other, than they were ripped apart, and now they've killed her off. I'm done with the show. I am LIVID.

October 03, 2007

Update

I absolutely promise a real update on my life, soon. I hope within the next 48 hours or so. :) It'll be worth it!

People just don't square dance like they used to...

...or at least not at a downtown drugstore in Kingston. Which was why I was really pretty surprised to see a middle-aged woman duded up in what was presumably her best square dance duds at 5:45 pm on a Thursday. Not one of those pretty frilly, lacy, satiny ones, that I admit I used to covet, ca 1979 or so, watching old reruns of Grand Ole Opry on PBS on Saturday nights. This was a long-sleeved button-up blouse with a country-and-western theme print on it and a matching skirt with a HUGEASS crinoline under it. With a 'kerchief at the neck. And of course, cowgirl boots.

Some outfits just don't translate into the outside world.

August 01, 2007

You don't have to have a lump to have breast cancer

Several weeks ago, “WhyMommy” from Toddler Planet was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer, a rare type of cancer (without a lump) that is often misdiagnosed as mastitis. WhyMommy is now using her blog to spread the word about this disease and is asking for our help in posting her story and information about inflammatory breast cancer. She was a nursing mama (she had to wean because of the cancer treatment) who noticed something “funny” about her breast, so she had it checked out. She never expected it to be cancerous.

The follow is a repost from WhyMommy’s blog. If you are a woman, or you know and love a woman, please read this information and pass it on. I feel that this information is ESPECIALLY important for all of the breastfeeding mamas out there, since this could have happened to any of us. It could save your life or the life of someone you care about. Thank you.

We hear a lot about breast cancer these days. One in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetimes, and there are millions living with it in the U.S. today alone. But did you know that there is more than one type of breast cancer?

I didn’t. I thought that breast cancer was all the same. I figured that if I did my monthly breast self-exams, and found no lump, I’d be fine.

Oops. It turns out that you don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer. Six weeks ago, I went to my OB/GYN because my breast felt funny. It was red, hot, inflamed, and the skin looked…funny. But there was no lump, so I wasn’t worried. I should have been. After a round of antibiotics didn’t clear up the inflammation, my doctor sent me to a breast specialist and did a skin punch biopsy. That test showed that I have inflammatory breast cancer, a very aggressive cancer that can be deadly.

Inflammatory breast cancer is often misdiagnosed as mastitis because many doctors have never seen it before and consider it rare. “Rare” or not, there are over 100,000 women in the U.S. with this cancer right now; only half will survive five years. Please call your OB/GYN if you experience several of the following symptoms in your breast, or any unusual changes: redness, rapid increase in size of one breast, persistent itching of breast or nipple, thickening of breast tissue, stabbing pain, soreness, swelling under the arm, dimpling or ridging (for example, when you take your bra off, the bra marks stay – for a while), flattening or retracting of the nipple, or a texture that looks or feels like an orange (called peau d’orange). Ask if your GYN is familiar with inflammatory breast cancer, and tell her that you’re concerned and want to come in to rule it out.

There is more than one kind of breast cancer. Inflammatory breast cancer is the most aggressive form of breast cancer out there, and early detection is critical. It’s not usually detected by mammogram. It does not usually present with a lump. It may be overlooked with all of the changes that our breasts undergo during the years when we’re pregnant and/or nursing our little ones. It’s important not to miss this one.

Inflammatory breast cancer is detected by women and their doctors who notice a change in one of their breasts. If you notice a change, call your doctor today. Tell her about it. Tell her that you have a friend with this disease, and it’s trying to kill her. Now you know what I wish I had known before six weeks ago.

You don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer.

P.S. Feel free to steal this post too. I’d be happy for anyone in the blogosphere to take it and put it on their site, no questions asked. Dress it up, dress it down, let it run around the place barefoot. I don’t care. But I want the word to get out. I don’t want another young mom — or old man — or anyone in between — to have to stare at this thing on their chest and wonder, is it mastitis? Is it a rash? Am I overreacting? This cancer moves FAST, and early detection and treatment is critical for survival.

Thank you.

July 16, 2007

Conversations with kids

First, with 7-year-old son, J:

Me: [talking back at CBC radio in the car, following a report on George W. Bush]

J: What's wrong, Mom?

Me: Oh, nothing, J, just yelling at the radio.

J: Did they say something wrong?

Me: Just a story about George Bush, he is such an ass.

J: What's wrong with him?

Me: Oh, where to start? But this story in particular just shows how completely out of touch with reality he is.

J: He must really suck.

Me: Yep, sucks hard.

J: Sucks worse than your music?

Me: Uh...

***

Conversation with three-year-old C:

Me: It looks nice out this morning. I hope it doesn't rain again today.

C: It's a blue sky. There are no clouds. And there's a sunshine on it.

Summer addiction

I am stubborn. I really hate being told I have to do something. I balk at following trends just because everyone else is doing it - the simple reason that everyone else is doing it, is enough to make me not want to. This especially applies to books, movies and TV shows. Best seller list? Couldn't care less. Huge fan base? Pfffft. If it looks interesting, I'll check it out; otherwise, mass hysteria over a book or show just sends me running in the opposite direction.

I really am a freak. I know it.

So it was with trepidation that I decided to download the first season of Grey's Anatomy. I know a large number of people who are addicted; I've listened to the conversations about the characters and plots; and thought it was probably an insipid soap opera with no real depth of character. But when I heard that Paul Adelstein (Paul Kellerman, Prison Break) would be joining the spinoff, Private Practice, I thought I might want to watch that show. I am a huge fan of Paul Adelstein; he is an amazing actor, unbelievably talented and so versatile. Highly underrated as an actor. So I thought perhaps I'd check out Grey's, get some context around the characters so I'd know what was going on with the spinoff. The first season of Grey's was only nine episodes; not a major commitment (or a huge bandwith usage).

Well.

I am HOOKED. I am now halfway through season two (which I finally found in English after having downloaded first French, then Italian, episodes!!) and I absolutely love the show. The writing is awesome, love the characters. I'm a MerDer shipper. I am so the fan of the star-crossed lovers theme. I've tried desperately to hate Addison, but she's such a good doctor; just can't do it. And can I add, TV shows on DVD are totally the way to go; I might as well not ever watch regular-season TV again. No commercials, and I go from one episode into the next with no break in between. Five eppies a night? Love it.

You HAVE TO watch it.

July 09, 2007

1-888-2-DONATE...

...but not if you're a gay or bisexual male k thx.

I support Canadian Blood Services. I am a regular blood donor (well, whenever I'm not deferred due to low iron - often works out to about two donations a year), for a couple of reasons: my grand-dad died in 1998 due to aplastic anemia, and blood transfusions extended his life, not to mention his quality of life, by about three years beyond what he would otherwise have had. Another reason: I was raised in a religion of people (Jehovah's Witnesses) who allow their children to die rather than receive a blood transfusion, and then put their faces on magazine covers as martyrs for their faith. I left the religion when I was 18 due to fundamental differences* in belief; donating blood is another way to take an active stance against their practices.

However, here's where I have to diverge from Canadian Blood Services. From their website:

Why do you not allow gay men the right to donate blood?

Canadian Blood Services’ policy indefinitely defers any man who has sex with another man, even once, since 1977. The policy in question does not apply specifically to gay men. This is one of numerous screening procedures which allow us to identify a variety of behaviours and activities known to increase risk to the safety of the blood supply.

The basic premise for our policy pertaining to men who have had sex with men is that the prevalence and incidence of HIV is much higher in males who have had sex with other males than it is in individuals having exclusively heterosexual sex. Statistics released by the Public Health Agency of Canada in 2005 indicate that men who have sex with men represented 58 per cent of the HIV/AIDS cases in Canada. This number is up from 2002, when they represented 40 per cent; and in 1996, when they represented 30 per cent of new cases of HIV/AIDS in Canada.

While we do test all units of blood and testing is sophisticated, there still exists a brief period after the onset of a viral infection during which early signs of a virus cannot be detected. This period of time is known as the "window period". However, the system is as safe as current testing and technology allows, combined with Canadian Blood Services' stringent screening processes (e.g., donor questionnaire, deferral policies).

We continually review our policies and procedures in the face of changing science and technology and as such we are conducting a risk assessment of this issue. Any change in donor criteria would have to be considered safe from a scientific perspective and be approved by our regulator, Health Canada.


I call bullshit.

Now, hey: I'm not going to argue with Health Canada's stats. Dammit, Jim, I'm an insurance broker, not a statistician! I'll assume that the percentages accurately reflect the landscape of HIV/AIDS in the years quoted. But since we know that studies and statistics can be manipulated to say anything the author wants them to say, I have to take issue with how CBS seems to represent the progression in these figures:

Statistics released by the Public Health Agency of Canada in 2005 indicate that men who have sex with men represented 58 per cent of the HIV/AIDS cases in Canada. This number is up from 2002, when they represented 40 per cent;


Ooooh, scary; unfortunately, it doesn't mean a damn thing! This doesn't say new cases. I would suggest that gay and bisexual men at least as likely as heterosexuals (if not more so) to get tested on a regular basis and be more proactive of their status; and therefore, if they receive a positive diagnosis, would seek treatment sooner and have a better overall prognosis (and the ones who aren't responsible about their own health probably aren't thinking about saving the lives of others by donating blood). Could we not theorize, then, that that more of the heterosexual individuals and lesbians who had HIV/AIDS in 2002, had passed away before 2005, decreasing the overall number of cases and thereby artificially inflating the percentage of gay and bisexual male carriers?

Also, the statement which immediately follows the above point:

and in 1996, when they represented 30 per cent of new cases of HIV/AIDS in Canada.
Ah, now we see the word "new", which was lacking in the previous statement. So the progression of percentages - 30% in 1996, 40% in 2002, and 58% in 2005 - means absolutely dick (pun intended), since comparing percentages is only effective when the percentages refer to the same damn thing. If we divided sexually active adults into only three categories - individuals who only have hetero sex with others who only have hetero sex, lesbian women, and men whose sexual partners include men - the 30% is actually below an even third of those. So who's taking more than their "share" of the percentage here? And could we perhaps see some figures on new cases, that aren't eleven years old?

Of course, this entire discourse operates on the conjecture that all gay and bi men are promiscuous; and that all heterosexuals are, by contrast, chaste and virtuous. I could list any number of hypothetical situations involving monogamous and responsibly non-monogamous gay and bi male partners; and just as many examples of reckless promiscuity by people in, well, every other group. By accepting heterosexual and lesbian donors, but deferring gay and bi men, Canadian Blood Services continues to perpetuate these stereotypes.

How much longer will we ignore this sanctioned discrimination against gay/bi men? What steps are we willing to take to protest it? What would be an effective form of protest?

I welcome your comments and suggestions.

* A subject for another post

July 06, 2007

Summertime, and the living is...

With no disrespect to Gershwin, summertime does not equal easy living. Maybe it's easier not to have to bundle up with several layers of innerwear, outerwear, footwear and the like; but I fidn myself constantly dashing out the door to work, soccer games, board meetings, interviews, daycare drop-offs, day camps, summer school...there's nothing easy about it.

Updates: Hubby got a job. Woot! He'll be baking; but he starts at 4 am. Before the buses run. Yeah, nothing easy there.

J is doing awesome with soccer. He's had about six games so far; and this past week, he was the goalkeep for the first time. Despite the rain and wind (we were soaked to the skin) he did an amazing job! There were probably about 25 shots on net (the other team had a couple of kickass forwards - this is U7, remember!) and he only let in four goals! The overall score was 4-3. He was proud of himself and I was proud too!

C is...well, when it comes to terrorism, she could give any Islamic fundamentalist a run for his/her money. She is my beautiful girl; but, being 3, she's quite convinced that her way is best, and seems to have boundless energy to expend in defense of her position.

The thing about our kids is that they got a good dose of stubborn from each of their parents. :) It will definitely serve them well in their adult lives, but right now, it certainly requires us to parent creatively! I say this with all love and good humour.

Board meetings & interviews: I was honoured earlier this spring to be invited to join the board at Sexual Assault Centre Kingston, where I have volunteered for a couple of years. I attended board member training just last night; and I am feeling energized and enthusiastic about the group of women I'll be serving on the board with. Also, SACK is hiring a new volunteer coordinator, and I am on the hiring committee; so will be helping conduct interviews with candidates. This is a pretty exciting time for the organization, bringing in new energy and a fresh perspective on the group! It's all good!

J will be going to a summer school-type daycamp later this summer, put on by the school board. He did an AMAZING job this year of bringing up his marks. We were absolutely thrilled with his final report card - almost every single mark was brought up; where he had a B- last term, he had a B this term, and so forth. I don't want him to regress over the summer, particularly with his reading and writing which were his biggest challenges. So he'll be going for two weeks and hopefully that will help prevent slipping.

Coming up: Hubby's sister and her husband will be celebrating their 10th anniversary next month with a party at Korner Stone Kastle, a beautiful B&B in Verona owned by our friend Steven Johnston. I am helping her plan and organize the event; and hubby is catering. Check out Steven's website here. If you're looking to stay in a B&B in the area, the Kastle is a gorgeous early 20th-century home with two wrap-around porches, a beautiful, relaxing garden, and nicely-decorated, comfy rooms. (Steven's not paying me to say this, honest! :P )

So - sorry, George; but I respectfully disagree with your assessment of summer living. And I wouldn't trade it for anything. :)

June 19, 2007

Cat Hilarity

Okay, this is too damn funny. I have embedded it at the bottom of my page as well; but omg. Someone had fun. :)

ilovemeow.com

I particularly like the phoenetic spelling in the "kapshuns", which I must assume is intentional. Click on the pic, and you can scroll through one hilarious pic after another. Not easy to do surreptitiously at your desk, if you're at work. :)

June 13, 2007

Freddie's doppelganger

Mexican cinematographer Rodrigo Prieto is well-known for his innovative filmmaking. He has worked on pictures such as Brokeback Mountain, Babel, Alexander, Frida, and 21 Grams. If you have really sharp eyes, you'll have recognized him as the Mexican prostitute Jack picks up in El Paso, in the movie Brokeback Mountain. But what made me do a double-take is this:



Am I nuts, or does he look for all the world like Freddie Mercury?

June 06, 2007

Cuz I Yam What I Yam

Ever hear a song that just hits you at the right place, at the right time of your life, and becomes "your" song for a while? Not one you share with your partner; but your own personal mantra.

I have one. I don't know how I managed not to know this one till now (well, actually, I do; I don't listen to commercial radio much and *never* listen to Top 40 stations, so I'm always behind on the new music) because it's from 2002. It became my song this spring when I was going through some difficult times; at times I wondered whether I was being unreasonable, or expecting too much from others; sometimes I wondered whether I was completely crazy. Hearing this song, and reading the lyrics, reminded me that I can only be who I am, and unapologetically so. The lyrics honestly proved to be a catalyst during that hell; the "coincidence" of which reminds me of my husband's belief that there are no real coincidences. In any case, here it is:

Don't Ask Me Why - Seven and the Sun

Don't ask me why
Don't ask me to explain I will not try
I'm who I am
That's all you need to know
So let it go

I will not change for you or anyone at all
I'm who I am I'm all I ever need to know
And you know I'll never be afraid

Don't ask me why
Don't ask me to pretend I will not try
There's more to me
Then you will ever know or ever see

I will not change, no I will never compromise
I'm who I am I'm all I ever need to be
So let go or turn and walk away

What we are
What we are
We're deeper than the sea
Higher than the stars
The gods we long to be

What we are
What we are
We're beautiful you see
Brighter then the sun
We're all we need to be

PRIDE




How the mighty temperatures have fallen - brrr! Three days ago, it was 27 degrees and humid; today it's 11 degrees out! I'm all for a high-pressure system, but this is a bit ridiculous. Oh well - it won't last long and it makes for good sleep at night, I guess.

What's going on in my life now - I am a parade marshall for the Kingston Pride parade this coming Saturday! Whoop! I'm really excited - it's my first Pride event ever. Well, I've volunteered at the women's dances put on by SACK, but they aren't strictly Pride events, despite the fact that 99% of attendees are lesbian women.

As a straight supporter of LGBT rights, I recognize that I hold heterosexual privilege. As the saying goes, with privilege comes resonsibility. I feel a responsibility to contribute to providing a safe space for the lesbian, gay, bisexual ans transgendered individuals in the Kingston community to express their pride, their sexuality, their love, their joy, their defiance to the dominant paradigm; and I want to show my support publicly.

I feel it's worth posting a couple of links to relevant local resources; one is Out in Kingston, which has a long list of queer-positive spaces and organizations/meetings/meetups for the LGBT community. Another is Kingston Pride, which has information on this year's Pride celebration in our city.

I am proud to be able to make this small contribution to the Pride events this year. If you're in the area, please come out and support the parade; or the Pride parade in your area.

June 03, 2007

Report from the jungle

It is hot. And humid. While I'm not enthralled with it, my plants sure seem to be. They have jumped up several inches just in the last couple of days while it's been rainforest-like here. Hooray! My little back garden has tomatoes, peppers, lettuce and sugar snap peas. I have 3 front gardens; one has larkspur, portulaca, cosmos and sweet peas. One has foxglove, lavender, portulaca and something else I planted and can't remember the name of - it's a tall slim stem, with a purple spiky flower at the top, sort of like a clover but a bit more sparse. And the other has foxglove and portulaca. Along my back fence, I have planted some morning glories for privacy, as our property backs onto a alley which runs behind the university stadium. There is quite a bit of foot traffic through the alley - people out for exercise, people cutting through to reach their destination more quickly, kids loitering. I also have some sunflowers planted out there as well. Yay! Within a month or so things will be really jumping. :)

Life has been a little harried here lately; DH took a job in Westport as a head chef, but yikes. It wasn't for him, for many reasons; not the least of which is that it was an hour commute one way. He didn't stay. Today, however, he has his first "real" job through his personal chef business, booked through his website by someone who found him on Google! Yay!

Money has been tight and it's been a bit scary with B not having a steady job. Somehow I'm not that worried. I don't know why - I should be. I mean, yeah, it's there in the back of my mind, but I'm not freaking out. Maybe I've become desensitized to it; it's pretty much been the story of our lives for a good 18 months or so.

Kids are great; C is a little pissy with the humidity (like me) but that could also be because she's 3. J only has a few weeks left of school and then he'll be off for the summer. He's really looking forward to his time off. I don't think B is sharing his enthusiasm, though. :P

And as for me, I'm doing okay. I have just completed a week of holidays, which were really nice. Spent lots of time with B and the kids, and just relaxed. Slept in late a few days and enjoyed the week. I have been invited to join the board at the non-profit organization where I volunteer, as well as joining the Human Resources committee (hiring new staff, dealing with current staff), and that's quite an honour. :)

May 12, 2007

Emerging

I've had a rough time of things this spring. I have troubles with anxiety and depression, and though for the most part I keep it under control, this late winter and spring have been really difficult.

I'm so glad the warm weather is here. Mother's Day is the day after tomorrow and that is my traditional "gardening kick-off" each year, although this year I had some bulbs come up, since I actually got my butt in gear last fall to get some tulips, crocuses and grape hyacinths planted! The tulips are beautiful orange, and the grape hyacinths are, of course, purple. They look absolutely gorgeous! The tulips have just come into bloom and the others have just started poking their little purple bunches out. The crocuses were white and yellow and I have to admit, they were a bit of a disappointment. They were really tiny. I hope they do a bit better next year, being more "established" than this year.

I have several hundred kilgrams of dirt and shit in the back of my car. Literally. Six 30 litre bags of black earth, 3 20kg bags of sheep manure and 2 30 litre bags of organic compost. I am building a raised vegetable bed for the back yard. Well, more accurately, Brandon is building it and I will maintain it. It's going to have latticework up the back so that I have (a) some privacy from the neighbours, and (b) a place to grow sugar snap peas! I have six tomato plants which will be ready to be hardened off and transplanted within a week or two. I have a bunch of beautiful little lavender plants started; fox glove plants; and one of my favourites, larkspur. They're so tall and showy; and prettier than delphinium.

I never could have imagined, when I was younger, that I would enjoy gardening so much as an adult! My parents always had a HUGE vegetable garden and I would have to weed the long rows of onions, carrots, tomatoes, etc. and I hated doing it. Now that the gardens are mine, even weeding is enjoyable. I just love to putter around. Granted, my gardens are probably 1% the size of what my parents have, but I'm still a newbie. With a tiny yard, no less. I am making use of what little space I have. I love the work involved in helping beauty flourish.

Life has the potential to be so drab, if we let it. Spring, summer and fall colours do so much to brighten our lives, and knowing that it happened at my hands, makes my enjoyment increase almost immeasurably.

April 16, 2007

Report from the "No shit, Sherlock" files...

What? Abstinence-only sex ed doesn't prevent kids from having sex? That is shocking.

From here:

Federal Abstinence-Only-Until-Marriage Programs Not Proven Effective in Delaying Sexual Activity Among Young People
Final Report on Federally Funded Programs Released Today
NEW YORK, NY— After years of delay in its release, a federally supported evaluation of abstinence-only-until-marriage programs funded under the 1996 federal welfare reform law has proven the programs ineffective in changing teens’ sexual behavior. The report, conducted by Mathematica Policy Research Inc. on behalf of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, found no evidence that abstinence-only programs increased rates of sexual abstinence. Also, students in the abstinence-only programs had a similar number of sexual partners as their peers not in the programs, as well as a similar age of first sex.

“This report should serve as the final verdict on the failure of the abstinence-only industry in this country,” said William Smith, vice president for public policy of the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S. (SIECUS). “It shows, once again, that these programs fail miserably in actually helping young people behave more responsibly when it comes to their sexuality,” Smith continued.

In 1996, the federal government attached a provision to the welfare reform law establishing a federal program for abstinence-only-until-marriage programs. This program, Section 510(b) of Title V of the Social Security Act, dedicated $50 million per year to be distributed among states that choose to participate. States accepting the funds are required to match every four federal dollars with three state-raised dollars (for a total of $87.5 million annually, and $787.5 million for the eight years from fiscal year 1998 through 2006). Programs that receive the Title V funding are prohibited from discussing methods of contraception, including condoms, except in the context of failure rates.

On a call yesterday organized by the Abstinence Clearinghouse, abstinence-only proponents were clearly rocked by the potentially ruinous news in the report. High profile abstinence-only advocate, Robert Rector, led the preemptive damage-control planning. He outlined several strategies the abstinence-only movement could use to rationalize the findings in the report saying, “The other spin I think is very important is not [program] effectiveness, but rather the values that are being taught,” Rector said. Whether or not these programs work is a “bogus issue,” Rector continued.

“Whether or not these programs are effective is the single most important issue. Existing research has already shown that comprehensive programs that include messages about both condoms and abstinence have been proven effective, and yet, federal and state governments continue to dump millions of dollars into abstinence-only-until-marriage programs that are not effective, and, in fact, have been shown to cause harm,” continued Smith.

Eight states have already made the decision to refuse Title V money. The overwhelming feeling in these states has been that the money came with too many strings attached, was ineffective in achieving its goals, and promoted extremist policies. Even with increasing numbers of states recognizing the waste and futility of the Title V spending, a federal legislative solution is still needed to ensure that proven, comprehensive sexuality education gets the funding it needs.

“This Congress has a momentous opportunity to end the charade and use these federal funds to support programs that actually work,” said Smith. “We fully expect this Congress to look at the government’s own commissioned evidence set forth in this report and end funding for these failed and ideologically driven programs,” Smith continued.

The program under scrutiny in the report is set to expire on June 30, 2007 unless Congress takes some action to extend it.

April 12, 2007

I have nervous tulips


Okay. What is with the weather? It's April 12 - and we've had more days with snow this month, than days without snow. Last fall I actually got my arse in gear to plant some bulbs (tulips, crocuses; I think maybe some hyacinths? I guess I'll find out), and they have poked their heads up, but every time they start to stretch up a bit, they get snowed on. They're scared to grow; and, frankly, I don't blame them!

Last weekend I put up a little green wire fence around my bulb bed, as I noticed people walking through it. My attempt was half-arsed at best and the fence had fallen over within a few hours. My neighbour, with whom I share a walkway and the flower bed, has been good enough to put up a nice little white plastic one to keep people out. Thanks, Brad & Jenn! (Yeah, not that Brad and Jenn, obviously)

Hubby and I have a date night tomorrow night. Woot! We desperately need it. I think we're going to go see Blades of Glory and then hit a restaurant.

March 31, 2007

Qui est Amadou et Mariam?

From Wikipedia:

Amadou and Mariam are a musical duo from Mali, composed of the couple Mariam Doumbia (vocals) (born in Mali's capital Bamako 15 April 1958) and Amadou Bagayoko (guitar and vocals) (born in Bamako 24 October 1954). The pair, known as "the blind couple from Mali" met at Mali's Institute for the Young Blind, and found they shared an interest in music...The duo produces music that mixes traditional Mali sound with rock guitars, Syrian violins, Cuban trumpets, Egyptian ney, Colombian trombones, Indian tablas and Dogon percussion. All these elements put together have been referred to as "Afro-blues".


(I had to look up where Mali is; it's in West Africa, bordered by Senegal, Burkina Faso, Algeria and Niger, among others)

Recently discovered this couple, courtesy of Launchcast. Their album Dimanche a Bamako (Sunday in Bamako) is fantastic. My favourite right now: Politic Amagni.

Their official website can be found at Amadou-Mariam.com; it defaults to French but can be displayed in English as well.

March 24, 2007

Rain, rain...stay as long as you like

It's pissing rain out. It's grey and miserable and I love it. Thank goodness spring has turned the corner.

I'm chatting online with my friend Cat who lives in Vancouver and is currently trekking in Europe. Right now she's working at a place north of London. Weather over there is apparently pretty sucky too; but with high winds. I prefer the rain. :)

March 14, 2007

Tired.


I am having trouble sleeping. I don't know why. It's unusual for me to have trouble getting to sleep, but the last four or five nights have been brutal. Last night it was after 1:30 before I finally got to sleep. It's brutal.

March 11, 2007

My celebrity lookalikes



Interesting! What's funny is that I've always thought Alicia Silverstone looks like my cousin Emily; and that Julia Stiles looks like my sister Julie; and that Lynda Carter looks like my aunt Neva. Cool!

Never was one for the quick up-take




I have made a discovery. Chet Baker. Yes, he has been dead for 19 years. He is just fab. West coast jazz is where it's what, cool cats.

Kinda looks like Chris Isaak, dontcha think?

Download this: entire album, "Chet Baker In Paris", ca. 1956. It's fab.

Have had way too much red wine and it's almost 2 a.m. Off to bed.

March 09, 2007

Your Quirk Factor: 36%

You have a few little quirks, but you generally blend in well with society.
Only those who know you well know how weird you can be.


LOL So true!

Another blogthing

You Are a Coy Flirt

You may not seem like you're flirting, but you know exactly what you're doing.
You draw people in, very calculatingly, without them even knowing.
Subtle and understated, you know how to best leverage your sex appeal.
A sexy enigma, you easily become an object of obsession.

Hidden attributes

The Part of You That No One Sees

You are powerful, passionate, and dominant.
You have a vision of how things should be, and you do your best to make things happen.
People rely on you for your strength. You are a rock to many.

Underneath it all, you aren't so sure about your passions.
So many ideas spark your interest, it is hard for you to get behind a select few.
However, you see indecision as a sign of weakness. So you pursue your goals full force - no matter how foolish they turn out to be.


Hmmm. Interesting.

March 08, 2007

Home

Back from Toronto. Can't tell you how glad I am that I don't live there. I was so glad to get home last night and just chill on the couch with Brandon, see my kids this morning... It's fun to visit once in a while, but with throngs of people teeming everywhere, all the time, Toronto is just not my style.

Hooray for Kingston. Congrats and welcome home to the young man (whose name I totally didn't get) who I sat beside on the train last night, who was returning to Kingston and to his wife after 5 weeks visiting Rome, Italy. Now there's someone who may even have been more happy to get home than I was.

There's no place like home.

March 04, 2007

Taking a few days off

Well, I'm officially on holidays; yesterday was my allergy study which I *really* didn't count as holidays. Definitely not a holiday.

Tomorrow I have some stuff to do around the house, and some shopping to do to get ready for my trip to "Trawnna". Tuesday morning I'm going with J on his school field trip; they are going to a conservation area to see how maple syrup is made. J already knows how, having an great-uncle that does that very thing north of the city, but he's looking forward to it nevertheless.

Then I get back from there, and I catch the train to The Big Smoke at 2:30-ish. Won't be back till late on Wednesday; and then I'm going to tackle the basement on Thursday-Friday. Lucky me. It won't know what hit it.

So I'm going to take a few days off from internet et al, aside from checking bank balances, etc.

Catch ya on the flip side. :)

March 02, 2007

Snow/ice/rain day

Schools in our district were closed today due to crappy weather. Okay, I'll admit the weather seemed pretty nasty first thing this morning. But really, by the time any of the buses would have been on the road, everything was just wet and sloppy. So my six-year-old spent the day at work with me. He was really pretty good, all things considered. Somehow, though, I'm still exhausted.

Going to bed early tonight and then selling my body for medical science tomorrow.

March 01, 2007

Farewell to Jay Kay




Jason Cheetham, better known as Jay Kay, front man of Brit funk band Jamiroquai, has announced his retirement from the music business. I do love me some Jami and have been a big fan of Jay Kay for years. Who can forget the Virtual Insanity video? Child can move like no one else.



Always diggin' the headgear. Enjoy your cars, Jay!

Selling My Body to Medicine; or, They Blinded Me With Science

I am participating in an allergy study at my local hospital. I've done it before, but not for about four and a half years, since I was either pregnant or breastfeeding for over three years.

I am exposed, along with the others in the clinical trial group, to ragweed pollen. The Environmental Exposure Unit simulates levels of ragweed pollen equal to what would be experienced outdoors during peak ragweed season. The last two nights, I have attended "priming" sessions - exposure to ragweed to activate my allergic reaction, so that on the treatment day, my allergies will respond as soon as the pollen exposure begins.

On the treatment day, we will be exposed to the pollen for two hours, then each of us in the group will be given "treatment" - we will receive one of two drugs, or a placebo. We then record our symptoms throughout the course of about 10 hours of exposure.

The drug we're testing has never before been tested in North America. The EEU where I do the testing, is world-renowned in this field. I have tested allergy meds for companies all over the world. I tested Aerius (desloratadine) before it was released on the market, and I believe that I did get "the good stuff", the medicine rather than placebo, during that study. It seemed to work well.

My allergic reactions don't often involve a great deal of sneezing; I sneeze a bit but it's not my main symptom. The absolute worst for me is my itchy, watery eyes and itchy nose, and post-nasal drip. Last night my eyes felt so gritty and gross, even with having worn my glasses. My glasses were coated with pollen. Yuck. It made it very difficult to see, and by the time I went to bed last night I was feeling like shit warmed over.

So, why do any of it? It pays pretty well. $500 when you complete the testing cycle, for this particular study. Each one usually pays between $450 to $600, depending on what's required by the study sponsors (the pharmaceutical companies).

As it turns out, I can be bought.

February 21, 2007

Hello, Pope; buh-bye, Paul.

Wow! Exciting happenings on PB this week. Michael and Sara convince Henry Pope to go to the cigar club to take out the contents of her father's humidor. Lincoln and Paul have an interesting conversation while waiting for M&S to return with Pope. This may be the only actual conversation I've ever seen Linc carry on; it doesn't involve Lincoln making any threats or grunting at all. Pope goes into the club to get the information Gov. Tancredi left there (and Michael and Sara have a very sweet conversation debating the merits of filet mignon vs. burritos while Pope is gone). As Pope leaves the club, he is confronted by The Smirking Man. Michael, down the street in the car, realizes what's happening and speeds up to hit Agent Kim with their trusty Jeep Wagoneer (knocks the smirk off his face for a brief moment). Lincoln The Rhino returns as he attempts scalpel-less cosmetic surgery on Agent Kim; Michael is finally able to summon Linc back to the car, Sara locks Paul out of the vehicle and they take off.

T-Bag takes the Hollanders to his childhood home-of-horrors and, through flashbacks, we see that his father sexually abused him. He asks Susan whether she can ever begin to love him; and she admits that she can't. He locks them in the cellar and gives serious consideration to how he will proceed. For once in his pitiable life, he makes the right decision, leaving the house and calling the police once he's at a safe distance, to alert the police that Susan and the kids are locked in. Can I add at this point, I am so torn by T-Bag's continuation on this show. The utterly brilliant Robert Knepper continues to amaze me. I am at once repulsed and fascinated by T-Bag and this week, finally illustrating that he truly loves Susan Hollander and her children, by doing the right thing in letting them go, was written so well by TPTB.

C-Note gives it his best shot to look after Dede on his own but finally realizes that she is just too sick for him to look after on his own. His good sense and loyalty to his family finally bring him to his senses, and he makes a deal with Mahone that, if Kacee is realeased from prison and his daughter receives medical care, he will help Mahone find Michael Scofield. I have read varying opinions on his actions; honestly, I think it's the first really honourable thing he's done since he left Iraq.

And Sucre! Papi is finally back with his baby's mami. "I got three words for you, baby...", no, not "I love you", "we gotta go!" LOL Cute. Good to see Sucre back with the love of his life, even if she did almost marry his cousin. Girl was confused; it happens.

Some pics of Michael being all intense:



Thanks to JustJared for the screencaps.

Moving on

Enough with that piece of spam. I shall waste no more blog space on him.

Today is an absolutely gorgeous, sunny, mild day. Granted, it's still below freezing, but only 3 degrees below, rather than 25 below as it has been the last few weeks. It's practically shorts-weather. :)

The weather change is very much welcome. Everyone seemsm to be feeling so pissy these days and I'm pretty sure it's because we're reaching the end of the winter. Only a few days left in February and when we reach March 1, I always feel a sense of relief, like we've reached a finish line - "We made it!"

I am on holidays the week of March 5-9. On March 6 (C's birthday!) I am taking the train in the afternoon, up to Toronto. I'm staying overnight all. by. myself. :D and attending a work-related seminar the next day. Then back home on the train that evening. I feel bad being away from C the evening of her birthday, but we'll have her party on the following Saturday; and she won't remember it anyways. This seminar is held twice a year in Toronto; and the other time during the year is the first week of school in September! So I'm a bit stuck. It's also held in Windsor and Hamilton; just way too far.

I am looking forward to having that time to myself; take myself out to dinner, maybe do a little shopping, sleeping in a hotel. **sigh** Gonna be good. :) I haven't gone away anywhere by myself since...um...ever? LOL Oh, when J was two I went camping for a weekend with my friend. This will be quite a luxury.

February 19, 2007

Justice

Recent events have prompted me to look take a quick look at some of the penalties imposed by the Canadian justice system for a couple of different offenses.

First, impersonating a police officer: Personate police officer; Criminal code section 130; max penalty 6 mos./$2,000 fine

Obstruct police; Criminal Code section 129; maximum penalty 6 mos./$2,000 fine; indictable 2 yrs.

Perjury (such as giving sworn testimony that, "No, I never saw a letter that my [friend/boyfriend] is alleged to have counterfeited, ostensibly from the OPP"): Criminal code section 131, 132. Maximum indictable penalty - oh, wow, hey! 14 yrs.

Which means if you're 23 now, you'd be darn near close to 40 before you saw the light of day again.

I imagine you'll want to consider your actions carefully.

*Info Courtesy of www.defencelaw.com, website of Toronto criminal lawyer Ron Jourard. Telephone: (416) 398-6685; toll free (Canada and U.S.) 1-888-257-0002; email: jourard@defencelaw.com.

February 18, 2007

An Inconvenient Truth



Have you seen it? It is SO WORTH SEEING. Al Gore presents undisputable facts in a format that is simply unforgettable. Please rent it as soon as you can; you can also buy it from the website associated with the movie, ClimateCrisis.net.

We just can't put it off any longer.

February 15, 2007

On behalf of Julie

On behalf of my sister, I offer the words of Dashboard Confessionals' "Best Deceptions":

I heard about your trip
I heard about your souvenirs
I heard about the cool breeze and the cool nights
And the cool guys that you spent them with
I guess I should have heard of them from you
I guess I should have heard of them from you

Well don't you see, don't you see
That the charade is over
And all the "best deceptions" and the
"Clever cover story" awards go to you

So kiss me hard
'Cause this will be the last time that I let you
You will be back someday
And this awkward kiss that tells of other people's lips
Will be of service to keeping you away

I heard about your regrets
I heard that you were feeling sorry
I heard from someone that you wish you could
Set things right between us
Well, I guess I should have heard of that from you
I guess I should have heard of that from you

Well don't you see, don't you see
That the charade is over
And all the "best deceptions" and the
"Clever cover story" awards go to you

So kiss me hard
'Cause this will be the last time that I let you
You will be back someday
And this awkward kiss that screams of other people's lips
Will be of service to keeping you away
To keeping you away

I'm waiting for blood to flow to my fingers
I'll be alright when my hands get warm
Ignoring the phone--I'd rather say nothing
I'd rather you never heard my voice
You're calling too late, too late to be gracious
You do not warrant long goodbyes
You're calling too late
You're calling too late
You're calling too late

February 14, 2007

Hey, Jarrett? Got a second?



I'm just saying.

Happy Valentine's Day



Have a good one, either with your sweetie or on your own. Couples don't have the monopoly on chocolate, flowers and love!!!

February 04, 2007

Meet Jack Shrapnel

As mentioned in a previous post, my husband's band, Jack Shrapnel, won a battle of the bands event last Sunday night. The following is a clip of one of the songs the band performed that night.



The band website is located at www.jackshrapnel.com

The Kiss...

I am SQUEEEEEEE for tomorrow night!

Blessed Imbolc

(I'm a couple of days late on this)

February 01, 2007

Crush

My son has his first crush. On a little girl in his class. Apparently she returns his affection. Their names rhyme and everything - it's totally meant to be!

I couldn't place who the little girl was, when he told me her name; so I had him point her out in his class picture. She is a pretty little gal, and I told him so. He kinda giggled and blushed and said, "I know!" It is way too friggin' adorable.

I bought a package of Valentines for him to give to his class; and last night as he was checking out the package (they're Duck Dodgers cards) he said, "Mom, there are no girl cards in here!!" Meaning there are no cards with girly pictures on them. He wants a "speshul" Valentine to give to her.

He told me he writes her love notes in class. I was curious as to how this works, since his reading and writing is only *fair* at this point. He said he writes his name, and he writes her name, and he puts hearts around them. Awwww!!

It's all just too cute for words.

January 30, 2007

Shippers' hearts go thump-thump...

Oh my!! What a fantastic episode of Prison Break last night! Better than last week's. The best part:


"We'll figure it out...together."

"I like the sound of that."

**Katie faints**

Next week's preview (Michael & Sara snogging) almost made my head explode.

Also, Sucre speaking Spanish the entire episode!! HAWT! Curse you, Monday, for being six days away!

Can I get a whoop whoop!

Hubby's band (which I manage) entered a battle of the bands. The competition was Sunday night. They won!! Won a few hours of recording time and a "trophy", which is an acoustic guitar with an engraveable plaque.

Whoop, whoop!

Hope it'll open some doors. :)

More almost-3-years-old wierdness

I swear, I do not know why the child is so odd. :P

Tonight as we were leaving daycare, she stood in the front yard of her caregiver's house and watched the moon for a few minutes. I gave her a few minutes and then went to the car and waited...waited...waited. Finally told her I'd count to 3, and if she didn't start coming on her own, I'd come get her. She said, "I'm coming". I started counting, and she said, "I'm coming!" Woah. Sorry.

The ensuing conversation was what made left me shaking my head, though:

C: I wanna see the moon. It my friend.

Me: I know the moon is your friend, but let's just get buckled in and you'll see the moon once we start driving.

C: I wanna have it! It my best friend!!!

Seriously. Best friends with the moon.

She's fickle, though. I asked her before I put her to bed, who her best friend is. She said, "My baby" (as in, her doll).

Lucky for me, the title of Mommy isn't transferrable. :)

January 27, 2007

Conversation with an almost-3-year-old

Me: "C, are you poopy?"

C: "No, I not poopy!"

Me: "I think you are."

C: "No, I not are!"

Me (checking): "Yup. Poopy."

C: "It my baby."

January 26, 2007

The Vanished

Everywhere I go, anytime I go online, anytime I'm listening to the radio, anytime I pick up a paper, all I see/hear/read is coverage of the trial currently taking place in New Westminster, B.C., regarding the murders of six women who vanished from Vancouver's Downtown Eastside in the 90s and early part of this decade.

The trial is often referred to by the name of the accused. His picture is everywhere. Every television news report shows the same video clip of him, climbing over a wall in his pig barn.

How many reports show the photographs of the victims in this trial? How many of us know the names of the victims? (Yes, there are 49 suspected victims in all, but only six are concerned with this particular trial) How many times have we heard that the victims were drug-addicted sex trade workers?

I strongly advocate for news organizations referring to this trial as the Vancouver Eastside Murders trial, or something that acknowledges the victims in this. They are, after all, the reason for this case. The accused is presumed innocent until found guilty, so let's not make it about him. Let's not give him the satisfaction of having his name mentioned in polite society.

Instead, let's acknowledge and meet the six women for whom the trial seeks to find justice. Please click the names to learn about these individuals.

Mona Wilson
Sereena Abotsway

Andrea Joesbury
Georgina Papin
Marnie Frey
Brenda Wolfe

January 24, 2007

I'm losing weight

I'm going back to the diet that was succeeding for me in the fall. It's nothing crazy; just watching calories during the day, and I don't snack after 7 p.m. I actually lost 16 pounds in October - November, but totally fell off the wagon during the holidays, and I gained 14 of it back. Grrr.

So, I'm back down another ten in the last few weeks. A great site for keeping track of your calories is Calorie-Count.com. They have a great little food log program and nothing to download!

Here's my ticker:

The reason for that special glow...

In my previous post, I posted a picture of Sarah Wayne Callies looking absolutely radiant. We now know the reason she looks so fabulous - she's pregnant! :)

From here:


Callies of 'Prison Break' expecting first child: publicist

NEW YORK (AP) - Sarah Wayne Callies, who stars on Fox's "Prison Break," is expecting her first child, her spokeswoman said Tuesday.
The baby is due in late summer, publicist Jodi Gottlieb said. Gottlieb declined to provide further details, including the occupation of Callie's husband, Josh Winterhalt.
Callies, 29, portrays Dr. Sara Tancredi on "Prison Break." New Corp.'s Fox network drama also stars Wentworth Miller and Dominic Purcell.
She has guest-starred on TV's "Law & Order: Special Victims Unit" and "Numb3rs," and as Jane in the short-lived series "Tarzan."

Congratulations, Sarah and Josh!

January 22, 2007

It occurs to me...

...whilst gazing at the pics I posted a few moments ago, that my sidebar description of myself, all label-free and all, is wrong. I finished breastfeeding my Sweet C in September; two and a half years, to the day, after she was born. Well, more accurately, she finished. Took me a few days to realized she hadn't nursed in a while (we were down to nursing only at bedtime anyways) and that was it for us. :) Went out with a whimper, more than with a bang.

Well, not even a whimper, really.

Just as it should be.

(Um...I'm also not cloth-diapering any more - well, only when we run out of sposies during a cash drought - but I'm blaming that on her daycare providers who can't wrap their heads around wrapping cloth around a baby's bum.)

The long wait is over...

Prison Break returned tonight. Definitely heart-pounding! If I make it out of this show without needing blood pressure medication, it'll be amazing.

I'll leave the witty recaps to Television Without Pity, but I will provide these pics of my favourite beautiful boy, and his beautiful co-star (who was NOT in tonight's episode! WTF!).

Simply fabulous.







My sister will, as always, inform me there are other men on TV. I think she's mistaken.

(Thanks to JustJared for the sweet pics.)

January 17, 2007

Oh.

Yeah, okay. Figured it out. :)

I have been trying to figure out...

...how to post this to the sidebar of my blog. I'm damned if I can figure it out. So I'll add it here instead.





January 20, 2009: The end of an error.